I attended Kimberly and Guosen's wedding dinner over the weekend. And below was one of my conversation with a fren:
Louis: I think they got married too young le...
me: Really ? why ?
Louis: nah 26/27 is too young le...
me: then wats the ideal age ?
Louis: 40 ?? tsk tsk
me: .....
I knew he meant it as a joke... but this got me thinking ... so how do you know you are ready to get married ?
I used to think that when I get attached to someone like she is part of my life already, I will have the marriage thought(s), which I did then. But over the years, events changed my perspectives totally man...
Now, i think that the day I will get married is the day I realise that I cannot live without that someone... and not that the r/s is so stable and it becomes a habit or equivalent.
All in all, marriages and engagement are important decisions pple make to get to another essential stage of their lives, and they are most definitely happy occasions... a handful of my frens and colleagues are getting hitched recently... so all the best to them and may they have blissful marriages ! So happy for them ! =)
As for me... I need to at least have that prospective someone before thinking any further... lolz
So back to that question of when is a good time, I really dunno...
P.S: Let's all not learn from the couple in the comic strip shall we ? Tsk tsk
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