Spiritually Loose Anyone ?

Anyone ever heard of someone who is spiritually loose ? Haha... i bet not often... so i shall define this term myself...

Definition: Someone who is spiritually loose has a serious syndrome of "out of sight, out of mind" in r/s. He/She does not grasp his/her own feelings well and only craved for company or fun from others. On top of that, his/her actions contradicts his/her words.

Haha i am sure many pple would have experienced such character of ppl around us. Somehow, i find this trait evident in many of the younger generations of gals (gals who are not out in the society). They are out for fun, trying to experience love but not really understanding the fundamentals behind a r/s. Of course there are exceptions in that some gals are not lidat and there are guys around who are also spiritually-loose, but i kinda feel the general cohort of 'young' gals who have this traits is abundant.

So I shall list 12 signs of a person being spiritually loose:

1) Throwing tantrums and not explaining them to you. Often, they will come out a cock explanation that is out-right obvious is not true.

2) Share secrets with other frens, only for you to be the last to know abt. Unwilling to communicate or open up to you even when you assure him/her that anything is negotiatable.

3) Feeling traumatised when ur parents do some thoughtful stuff(s) for him/her, for example passing her an air purifer when she has serious runny nose and the PSI hitting 160.

4) Trying to drag the r/s with you when there is something really wrong abt him/her. More often than not, his/her attitude will tell you something is wrong. You will do many things for him/her, even coming out with the break-up request.

5) Telling you she suddenly has no feelings for you after a quarrel.

6) (For pple who are away or overseas) Telling you he/she missed you for the first month but not anymore for the second month while you are away.

7) (For pple who are away or overseas) Telling you that he/she is waiting for you to come back to settle some problem, but admitting to you that he/she feels relieved after the separation.

8) Telling you he/she is entitled to like anyone he wants despite not settling the r/s problem at hand.

9) Staying very close to another fren of the opposite sex while admitting that he/she does not like that person. In most cases, he/she admits that the fren is trying to woo him/her.

10) Being rude to ur parents just becos he/she has a mood swing.

11) Throwing away the things you left for him/her in front of you, only to change his/her mind and take it back afterwards.

12) Trying to 'act frenly' with you after the breakup when he/she handled the whole situation like F**K. Often trying to show concern to you while telling you that its just a fren-fren kinda concern.

Anyone know such a person ?? I do... or rather i used to know someone lidat...
That someone betrayed my loyalty... my efforts and most importantly my trust... Keet was saying I am still very sore about the whole string of events, hell yeah !! haha who wouldnt ?

Anyway to end it off, to those pple who are spiitually loose, i only have one phrase for you... your retribution will come someday yeah....hahaha 8)

ciao~