A Can of Worms....

A fren just open a can of worms yesterday, my can of worms actually...

The gist of the whole conversation revolves around a theme I call "Pre-empting the Sins". It was brought to my attention that as long as something has been pre-empted or anticipated, it is totally justifiable. Take for example, A pre-empted B that he was to slap B on the head; and slap B he did. So, for "sounding out" beforehand, slapping B is not wrong at all ! Or is he ?

Take another example, a gf pre-empted a bf that she had a hot persuer... and the guy did nothing; so the girl left... so much for being loyal hey... so does that make any sense that the girl thinks she played no part in the breakup ? Yeah, perhaps the guy could have done something afterall, but come on.... it's like why even bother saying this shit if the girl wasnt interested in the persuer at all ?

Well done... as far as I am concerned, it is just another example of the irresponsible human being justifying his/her own misdoing with an equally nonsensical justification. And it really makes wonder how such immoral acts can come from someone I tot i knew pretty well back then... and I was the last person to know about it... talk about respecting people....

As much as I hate to say this, I shall reiterate something I left behind before moving on:

"You reap what you sow... You deserve it !"

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Weekly Wrap up....

Dex said it so well... "... looks like non-working day for you also busy !"

hahaha

He commented that when I told him I was out everyday since Xmas eve eve (23 Dec 2009). Had it not been that I am not feeling well today, I would have been at Kallang Indoor Stadium @ Singapore Idol Finals to wrap up the week.

And It might well be the same case for the next week; I will be out pretty often.

That kinda sums up my whole year seriously; busy spending time and hanging out with my family, old and new friends, and that's what I enjoy doing ... so it doesnt really bother me... oh that reminds me... needa start doing the annual New Year Resolution...

Or like Ziping said... no need to resolute... cos the more you resolute... the less is done...

Hahahaha

Have a great week ahead people !!

*yawnz*

I is weak leh... hahaha

My finger is still pretty weak from the sprain last Sunday.... somehow I just cant find the injured spot siah... weird... dunno whether it can heal in time for bball Sunday....

To make matters worse... my ear bones hurt from chewing probably cos of too much heaty food... hmmm

I think I shall have an early Xmas night... with lotsa water before that...

Hope everyone had a great Xmas !!

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Too many cooks spoil the broth... maybe ?

Comments from colleagues:
"I think you are the kind of lover that thinks for yourself first... "
"You are just picky lah..."
"I will be disappointed if you dont go after ___ "

Drey commented: "You just havent found the right one... take your time... career first"

The the various "I intro ___ to you ok... ?"

Hahaha seems like ppl around me cant wait for me to get hitched leh... giving me all their analysis and advice... but I found Drey's comments most to my thinking now....

And.... the more that I think abt it, the more I realise maybe I am happier being single for now. For some reason(s), I just feel that I am not ready .... could be that suddenly one more person into my life makes it somewhat awkard for me as I am pretty contented with life .... another reason could be that I dont even know where I will be or what I will be doing next year, let alone think of such long-term stuffs....

Or simply put, perhaps I just havent found the "right" one....

Mind you, office romance, close fren romance, fren's sis romance (yes, I really mean it) - All no no for me... hahaha too much repercussions should there be any problems... and I have a phobia of facing these niggling nuisance(s) which could have been prevented in the first place... why should I eat and shit at the same place u know... lolz...

Afterall, prevention is better than cure any day !!! =)

Food for thought yeah...

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MERRY CHRISTMAS !!!!

Season's greeting pple !!!

To the ladies:

A time to celebrate the festive season with the important ppl... sharing the love holidayatmosphere...


For the guys:

A picture tells a thousand words, need I say more !!??
wahahahahahaha


tsk tsk

Have a fabulous Xmas !!!

Slience before the Storm ?

Haha... typical rainny day at workplace, only difference is that I find a certain beauty to the picture.

Enjoy pple !

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Shit-faced....

For the first time in my life, I actually felt like I m "sticking my face into ppl's a$$"...

Believe me, it's not a nice feeling....

And as usual, NCR is missing the point(s) again..... haiiiz....

My Busy Days... hahahaha

For some reason, I have been very much occupied by activities, and I could hardly grasp for breath these days… Don’t get me wrong, it’s definitely a good thing to be meeting new people and listening to their different experiences, just that it wears me out sometimes when I have too many things squeezing into one period of time and then quiet for the rest of the time… this inconsistencies makes crazy sometimes… hahaha Sometimes I really wish I have 48 hrs a day instead of 24 ...

Anyhow, just a recall of things (if I even remember clearly):

It started with the NACE presentation at NUS on Thursday. It was a good presentation by Robert on coating, and my colleagues and I had some time chilling at the Staff Club before heading home.

Tuboscope Dinner and Dance on Friday, where I was made a clown… lowest pt in my life lo… tsk tsk. But still great fun, no doubt.

Sat: Met up with kel, wy, hf, slee for KTV. Ended the night with some chilling out at Mt Faber… not a bad place given the windy and scenic atmosphere.

As usual, bball workout on a Sunday morning, followed by meeting Grace and Keet in town. Ended the night with meeting up the November babies for dinner at Marche (Vivocity).

Jingle came back from NYC; so we had a family gathering at Grand Copthrone on Monday. My aunt was busy bugging us about slimming down, especially my tummy…. Hilarious if you ask me…

Chilling session yesterday with my colleagues, followed by meeting an “old” fren. Not exactly old because we hardly knew each other back in school. But, I think we had an enjoyable time; it’s been a long while since I had ice cream cake for supper.

Yeah, I can get home early today and rest.

Watching the Bulls makes me EMO sometimes... hahaha

As much as I am a Bulls fan, i concede...

They are really a disappointment man... the early good start just fizzles out like a can of coke decanned too long... haiiz... And this vicious cycle just goes on and on and on and on...

A very promising post season ends with a horrible and absymal new season... ^^

Lowest point in time to lose to the Nets (Nets just broke the NBA record for the most number of straight losses !!!); come on...

Every year the same high hopes and every year the same kinda nonsense ...

When will they ever be competitive... ??

hmmm....

Stand Chart Run 10KM

Just ran 10km for Stand Chart Run 2009 with Ling and Drey. Thank goodness, the weather was cool and there wasnt much sunlight...

The run started quite okay... only thing that bothered me were my legs telling me to stop, especially when I tried running up Benjamin Sheares Bridge.

When I first saw the bridge from far, I thought "wtf... u $%^&, I will get over you..." But 2 min up the slope, I decided to walk, lest my legs give way when reach the top and start tumbling down the bridge... hahahaha

Not that it is something great, but it's a start nonetheless... next run will be 21km.


By Stand Chart 2010, I hope to do a marathon (42 km), and then tick off that item from my bucket list... hahaha

And, well done to all the people who participated this year man... !!


To the gang: let's do it again next year shall we ?

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A Curse from Yours Truely....

I always believe religion to teach people good things, and that different religions are like different branches while they all report to the same divine being up there.

So for that bugger who claim my car insurance when it was clearly his fault... bear this curse:

"your day of awakening will come... or your retribution(s) will come one day... and I hope that when my god reflects to ur god about your sins, you will sure kana lor... And best, when ur god knows about these sins only through my god, ur god will lose face and end up giving you 2X jialat jialat for not declaring them earlier lah !! "

Hahaha

*Giggling*


Something so random just came through my head eh...

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