Something which I cannot Understand....

Just saw an old fren from JC days in bus 179 on my way home. Call him G. To my surprise, G has a new gf. Surprised becos i remember back in the JC days my another fren would tell me that G has a very stable gf. Then few weeks ago heard from another fren tt another long-lasting pair of lovers have separated too. A different fren from JC too, call him W. I remember W was with this gal since his sec school days man... even during army they went thru their r/s strong. Which makes me wonder, how come ppl are changing partners so easily ?

Perhaps they realise their ex wasnt their right one afterall ? Perhaps they found better gals ? Perhaps their ex decided to part ways.. i dunno seriously... which brings me to my question :

Is maintaining a r/s so complicated ?

Or maybe becos we now have more choices in society that we fail to really ask ourselves wat we need and want, rather than "the next will be better". I am not asserting that the old ways of 'prearranging partners' is acceptable; rather, i am sighing that the modern way of 'free love choices' may not be that great afterall...
There will always be the clash bet security and love.

I could recall pple telling me when the r/s gets too long, the sparks doesnt fly anymore (or hes more like a close friend than a lover); but, isnt it wonderful to have someone who knows u inside out in your life ? I mean i am fine with break-ups becos they knew they are not suitable for each other... wat i cannot accept is when the r/s gets to a stable point and suddenly its time to move on... no sparks... haha

Lovers can be good one day and break up the next day... no feelings ? not serious ? no sparks ? Or like i asserted - someone better is out there... i really dunno and cannot seem to fathom it.

A small part of me is starting to lose faith.... 8)

Anyway gotta go for my weekly jog le ... and it's back to mugging later...

ciao~



PS: Feel free to gimme some answers peeps !! 8)