During lecture, I asked a fren y she kept insisting tt she would meet her bf every Sat to either watch movie(s) or just plain meet... and i got a lashing from her lah...wahahaha Now she tinks i m trying to say that going out with gf/bf is a tedious chore. Hmmm... i didnt meant it tt way anyway... all I was trying to understand is y must she be so insistant tt the bf should go out with her on sat.
The suggestions i gave her and her response are:
1) YC: How abt sun ?
Fren: He has to play soccer. He got no time for me on Sun.
2) YC: How abt nights off ?
Fren: Nights off not enuff time to stick around. (BTW her bf is still in Army...)
Okay...
Then she retorted back, "When u have gf tt time, u never like wanna meet her whenever u can meh !?"
I tot for a little while and realise although i did wanna meet her... I was more concerned with the 'QUALITY' of the meeting than say the 'QUANTITY', maybe thats y my ex said i dun really understood her... perhaps i really dun understand gals of her generation....
To put it simply, i felt tt sometimes a simple gesture like a phonecall or an sms says a thousand words... cliche but true leh... Sometimes its really the thought that counts and not merely just meet. Of course, meeting the other partner is important... i just felt that doing the same things like for so so long and then meeting for the sake of meeting is just not my cup of tea...haha
Then again... i dun feel my fren is wrong... its just a diferent mindset that's all... So do gals think like wat my fren think and I have a generation gap with them le... or is my thinking just pure plain WEIRD... hmmm... anyone can enlighten me ?
8)
Inquisitive YC
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