"Do to others what you want others to do to you, thats empathy...." "Think carefully before you act, and never regret after the action(s)... that is happiness..."
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
King James.... my FOOT !!!
Let's just say actions speak louder than words u know...
Lolz
Sunday, April 25, 2010
Realities in different time and space
Had the whole Saturday empty to stay at home...
It's really not that bad seriously; doing everything at ur own pace and then resting as well...
I was watching Justice League movie online. And it has just been out apparently, and it talks about this idea revolving around different world. By different world, they refer to this concept that we are in our own reality and there are many other parallel realities in time and space. Simply put, it like there are numerous me in other realities. So, I could be an unknown character in one, a criminal another and etc. And all these realities are triggered by man's thoughts - our creativity and our desires so to speak.
Interesting isnt it ?More important is that it really doesnt matter if the concept is true anot... what really matters is that we know our own "roles" in our realities. That is, of course, a totally different story if we can travel between realities...hahaha
And I guess our "role" pretty much is determined by our thoughts and desires, personalities, our hardwork and sometimes luck for that matter.
So what is my "role" ?
Honestly, I am still searching for it... my role in society ... haha
And what is your "role", do you know ?
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Friday, April 23, 2010
When winning isnt the issue anymore...
Monday, April 19, 2010
Do we really lack courtesy to that level ?
I mean I respect that we all needa put priorities our life on stuff like family bfs/gfs and what have you. But u know, sometime it really bugs me that people get too obsessed over it lah... I mean look at it this way, it takes two hands to clap; you are not putting in any efforts to at the very least be courteous enuff to want to talk nicely, it's probably the worst way to maintain rs lah...
Well, what do I know ? Becos I am not obsessed doesnt mean others arent ... hahaha
In fact, I think I have a pretty balanced lifestyle so far... so I can say or do what I want.
Like I say, what goes around comes around... so it's really no loss; more of an enlightenment.
So dont ever lament one has no frens, look into one's own behaviour first.
Period.
Paasion or Gayish ?
Wonder what SAF thinks of this... tsk tsk
A prelude to whats to come from Yifei and Alam ?
MuahahahahaList of Jokes...
We were talking about getting a list of jokes that are shared among a circle of pple u know...
so instead of having to say the jokes all over again, u kinda go like "Number 4"; and then, everyone would understand and burst out laughing...
The best part of this is that whenever someone(outta the group) tries to be funny and come into it, he/she might go :
Fren: "Let me try this, number 6 !"
*Silence*
Fren: "Number 6 !"
*Silence*
Fren: "why ? whats wrong with the joke ?"
YC : "It's not really the joke u know... it's the way u say it..."
*Burst in laughter except the fren*
Hahahahaha
We should really give this a try gang !! An identity only to ourselves !! lolz
=)
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
OXYMORON 2
Saturday, April 10, 2010
A Grey World in Black and White ...
But, to understand and appreciate the grey part, I think we all need to learn about her in black and white first. It's like schooling u know... we all study about the ideal cases before touching and dwelling into the different cases and anomalies.
For example, having been through and gained a particular experience, u will kinda be able to anticipate the end from looking at the initial stuffs, but if you start preaching the concerns to someone who hasnt had that experience, he doesnt appreciate everything for sure. It's like u know the way from point A to point Z, but he can only see it till point K u know.... so it's so much easier to bring the person to point K first and then move on from there...
Give you guys another example, real life ones. In my line of my work, I had to coordinate with the colleagues in the yard who are not from the management; initially, it just drives me crazy becos they dont see the things the management sees. But after awhile, I realise I would have to convince them slowly, from one point to another point to reach the goal(s) that I want. It's draining sometimes, no doubt, but at least it gets you to the end that you want... and also everyone is happy. Conversely, had I unleashed all my expectation(s) on that poor chap who isnt convinced somehow, I dont think much could be accomplished at all and feelings would be hurt... and things will turn pretty ugly for sure man... most importantly, nothing gets done at the end of the day !
It works the same for the advice we give. It could be the most correct advice, but if it doesnt get the person to the intended aim, whats the use ? I would rather bring the person to a certain point(s) and then for all we know, he would be able to get it to his end himself. If not, I advise a few more times to get him there...
Let's just say to tackle the complicated, we need to do it simple.
Like Hans and John mentioned, no rocket science involved at all !!
=)
Friday, April 2, 2010
BONES
I mean seriously, I was only doing these stuffs:
1) Eat
2) Sleep
3) PC
4) Catching downloaded series
Which reminds me, I am strongly encouraging you guys to check out this series - BONES. I know Mitch isnt really into this show, but I really felt that it is one of the best investigative dramas around. The story revolves around an anthropologist (Bones) and CIA agent (Booth), and they teamed up together in a unusually matching way to solve murders from studying bones. Of course, there is the element of love between them which they are still trying hard to kid themselves even when it's the fifth season already.
But I mean seriously, what attracted me about the show is the personality of these 2 main cast. On top of the fact that Bones (as she is nicknamed) is an attractive woman, she fills her world with logic and facts to hide her insecurities. Meanwhile, Booth offers the spiritual aspect in crime solving (emotions and stuff that isnt really that clear cut). Ironically, despite their vast differences, they actually complement each other to perfection.
Perhaps what I really see in these 2 characters are two aspects of myself. On one hand I try to do things as logical and sensible as I want to be, I kinda come to the conclusion that there are certain stuffs that are just not that factual afterall. It's an ongoing battle everyday, yet it could be so perfect when a balance can be made of the two.
Well, enough of my rattlings... do check this series out man... I am sure many of you will love it just as much as I do.
=)
PS: Dont say I didnt warn you, there are pretty gory scenes, u name it they have it...